Monday, May 10, 2010

Relationships are Unpredictable...

It seems like the things i am inspired to write about are always relationship related. I was on Facebook today and i found out that someone on my friends list broke up with her fiancé. Her status change from engaged to single was met with instant responses of "are you serious" and "this cannot be true". Almost everyone who saw her relationship status was in otter disbelief. They seemed like such a happy couple and they were always together. It all seemed so sudden because just today she commented on how excited she was about the wedding she was planning for this august. Her situation made me think about just how unpredictable relationships are and how sometimes we could be in disillusion about how happy our partner is or what he/she is thinking. The final  thought that came to my mind was, could this happen to me? Although i would like to think that my boyfriend is happy with the way our relationship is going who is to say that this time next year the same thing couldn't happen to me?

Writing this blog post made me think about the thought that popped into my head this morning when i woke up this morning which was "Finding true love is worth the risk of heartache" Roughly what this phrase means to me is that sometimes we will fall in love and we may get our hearts broken but we should not let that defer us from finding that person who is truly sent for us. You just give heart the time it needs to mend and try again... I hope that she find the strength to move on and try again, he wasn't the right one for her but i am sure she will find someone else better. 

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