Often when I witness troubled relationships the first thought that come to my mind is why is she staying? Can't she see he isn't right for her?or i think that she is stupid or has self esteem issues. I go as far as to place myself in her shoes and say if that was me i would have left him long time. I think what most of us outsiders looking in, don't realize is that he may not always be as bad as we may think he is. There are probably times when he is extremely loving, kind and affectionate. Heck he may be a amazing 99% of the time. The times we see him being rude and mean to her is the 1% that is rare. WE don't realize that she is so focused on how he normally treats her that she ignores what are probably warning signs and she follows her heart and ignore her gut instincts. What we don't realize, is that she loves him more than she loves herself. What we don't realize, is that she probably wants to give him the chance to correct the "minor" issues he has. What we don't realize is that he was there for her when she needed him and now she wants to be there for him when he needs her. Love has a way of making people feel trapped. Sometimes, you don't want to let go cause you feel like you're giving up, even if it hurts to stay...
A few weeks ago i read a quote that stuck with me and it said "You accept the love you think you deserve..."
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