This is something i am guilty of doing, sometimes i am just too hard on my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years and 2months and i am sure he probably thinks that i am bi polar. One day i am happy and i am in love with him and cant wait to spend forever with him and the next moment he annoys me and i dont want to talk to him. Its like sometimes he can do no wrong while other times he can do no right..lol For instance, right now he is trying to talk to me, he has been trying to talk to me for 2hours now and i only give him one word answers to him questions. He asked me if anything is wrong or if he did something wrong and all i say is true. What does true means?
In my heart i know i am not treating him fairly but my emotions and mind are not on the one accord right now, my heart says to let him know you just dont really feel like talking right now but my mind is like screw it he will get over it...
Are we too hard on our men? We expect them to know how to treat us and what we need but we dont help them out. We take out our bad moods on them and ignore them and treat them as though they are disposable and then we get upset when one day (after they have tried so hard to please us) they get fed up and walk away. I guess what i want to say is if you have a good man who is genuinely interested in your well being cherish him, dont just be angry with them and not tell them why you are upset, dont take out your frustration on him (unless he deserves it of course). Most importantly, listen to your heart not your mind cause sometimes our minds lead us astray.
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