Sunday, March 28, 2010

Signs to know a man is really into you (just my opinion)

Signs to know that you found the right man. (these are just my opinion and i am no relationship counselor just something that came to my mind that i wanted to blog about.)

1. He is trustworthy.

You have to be able to trust your partner for the relationship to work. Trust is the foundation of any lasting relationship and it extends beyond knowing that he will not cheat on you. Trust is also knowing that he will be there for you whenever you need him. Its being secure that he would never leave your side and that he would protect you and put your needs before his own and you in turn, should return them same favor to him.

2. He is genuinely interested in getting to know you.

Sure sex is a great part of the relationship and you should be compatible sexually, however, for there to be a true love connection he has to get to know the real you. He should be interested getting to know your interests, and who you are as a person. A man cant fall in love with you if he doesn't know who you are.

3. He is protective but not obsessive
Sometimes as women we confuse the two. Obsession is not a sign of love its his way of trying to control you. If you cannot be yourself he will not know the real you therefore he cant love you. Protection is him showing interest in your well being. For example, you are working late and he picks you up from work at night and makes sure you get home safely. if he is unable to do that he at least calls you to make sure you arrive home safely. Obsession is him trying to establish himself as the dominate one in the relationship you want someone who treats you as an equal not as a subject.

4. He does things for you without you asking.
True story, one night i was really thirsty and i said out loud that i was thirsty, but it was too cold to get out of bed so i just went back to sleep, about 10mins later i felt a tap on my shoulder and my boyfriend handed me a glass of water. it must have been 3am in the morning. I didnt even know he heard me when i said i was thirsty nor did i expect him to do that for me. I swear my love for him grew 20times bigger. Its not always about how much money he gives you when you ask for it that shows he loves you. Its the little things he does that are unexpected that shows his dedication and love.

5. All of his friends and family know about you.
This is probably the most important trait. IF you have been dating a guy for over a year and you have never met his family or friends... (i am going to leave it there its self explanatory.)

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