Sir and I got officially engaged a few months ago...I dont know if I should say officially because we didn't have a ring, (we took our ring money and went to Andros for four days...lol) Anyways, we know that we want to get married some time next year, however, as far as planning the wedding and our big day goes we discussed that we just want to do something quick and easy that involves us spending as little money as possible. Originally, we thought to go to city hall and sign some papers then go on a 2 week road trip around Europe (well nearby countries) and just enjoy a fantastic and adventurous honeymoon. Now our wedding plans are dependent on where we are going to live. (The Bahamas or The Netherlands)
For some reason the idea of a hassle free, wedding is pleasing to me. I don't need the spotlight to be on me, I want it to be our day a day we will remember and something that is private and only for us both. Ironically my values and ideas of a wedding and wedding day have changed drastically since I met Sir. When I imagined myself getting married I pictured my future husband and I surrounded by 20 of our closest family members followed by a blowout party that included everyone who didn't have the privilege of being invited to the wedding. But now when I picture my wedding day I only see Sir and Me standing before each other making the promise of always being together and sticking with each other from now and forever regardless of the struggles we may face as time passes on. Then us going off to enjoy the start of our marriage lives. I must say that I am really curious how our wedding day will pan out. Either way I am sure we will be laughing a whole lot cause we always have a great time together regardless...lol This dude...lol
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