1. You love yourself, If you do not love yourself you cannot love someone else. There is no debating this topic. Thats just the way it is, how can you expect someone else to love you or for you to love someone else if you dont love yourself first. Loving yourself means that you except who you are and you dont need someone else to validate you or the value that you have for yourself.
2. You let go of baggage. Baggage is represents a number of things, its old love, crushes or passions. Its self esteem issues. Its anything that causes you not to be open emotionally to relationships. How can you expect to love someone else when your heart and mind is jammed with other issues and feelings.
3. You are happy being alone. I think this is self explanatory, however, relationships sometimes have a way of not always being what you want it to be. Sometimes there are times when you would want your partner to be able to spend time with you but they are busy with other things. The person who is codependent sabotages their relationship by being too needy or always wanting to be around their partner 24/7 not everyone needs to be around partners for that long.
4. Your know what you want in a relationship.
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